Ohmigosh, I am so behind already. Have already tried to catch up with commenter’s blogs already and got sucked in and linked from one to the other. Synopsis of me: TTC with intent about a year after my marriage at 38. I was with hubby for 5 years previous to that, but making a living, not babymaking was more on our minds. Just about the time my mother moved from out of province to stay with us, she had a stroke and had to be put in intermediate care for dementia. Oh, yeah and I was attempting IVF for the first time. We had already done the Clomid (hello hot flashes) and IUI’s. Tried IVF along with acupuncture, naturopathic diet and Chinese medicine. 4 IVF attempts in total with 2 frozen FET later, we turned to adoption as a sure thing. That took a while and after several bouts of depression, marital discord and a lot of cursing, it looks as though we may be on our way to a family of our own.